How Do I Efficiently Use My Attorney’s Time?
Thursday, November 4, 2010 at 3:45PM When you meet with an attorney, you are paying for his or her services and expertise by the hour. It’s important to use your time wisely and prepare for each meeting; otherwise your legal case can get very expensive.
There are plenty of helpful articles that offer advice on how to prepare for your first meeting with a lawyer. When you meet with me, here are some things to keep in mind:
How should you prepare for our meeting? If this is our first meeting, I will give you a list of all of the documents I need, which will depend on the nature of your case. If your case has already started, please bring all pleadings with you. During our meeting, I’ll copy what I need.
Start thinking about answers to the following questions. This will give me more background on your specific case:
- Do you have real estate, retirement accounts, financial institution accounts, significant personal property, or any other types of property?
- What debts do you have?
- If you have children, who will they live with?
- Any issues with domestic violence, drug/alcohol abuse, other problems affecting parenting?
- What does each person earn, to determine child support? Daycare, educational, or other special expenses?
Also, start thinking about questions that you’d like to ask me such as, “What will this cost?” and “What is the process for moving my case forward?”
Please make childcare arrangements because it is not appropriate for them to be at our meeting.
What happens during our meeting? The goal for every meeting is to find out what you want and explain how (or if) you can have it. If this is our first meeting, I will ask you a series of questions to gain an understanding of your case. Questions like:
- How you respond to stress?
- Do you have family or friends to help you through the process?
- What is your financial situation—what you have and what you owe?
- What you would like to do about your kids?
Starting out, everything that you share is relevant to your case because personal stories and background information help me understand your thought process and larger desires. Once I have that information, however, I don’t need to hear it again. It is only necessary to update me if something changes. Subsequent meetings generally focus on a specific issue at hand at that time. Retelling information only wastes time.
What happens after our meeting? It’s a good idea to take notes about what we discuss during our meetings. You can do this as the meeting happens or afterwards at home.
At the end of each meeting, I will outline what the next steps are. This will help move your case forward and give you action items to prepare for our next meeting. Being ill prepared by not bringing documents or finding out information I asked for in advance wastes time and costs you money.
It’s not uncommon to have questions after we meet. If it’s a single issue, sending me an email works the best. However, if it’s a complex question and if there will be a lot of going back and forth between us, scheduling a subsequent phone or in-person meeting is a good idea. Keep in mind that I do charge for these post-meeting contacts.
This should give you an idea of how to prepare for and what to expect during our meetings. I look forward to working with you.
Marie White | Comments Off |
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